A poet reading at a microphone before a warm, diverse candlelit crowd

Reflection Nights

Low lighting. Jazz. Real-life stories.

A warm evening out — your next girls' night, date night, solo self-care reset, or the place you meet your new favorite people. Come feel, be seen, and take a pause.

Part supper club, part open mic, part exhale — a themed night where real stories are told, jazz plays low, and you get to just be.

Intimate two-person tables throughout a candlelit room

Share, or simply savor

Some nights you'll want to speak. Some nights you'll want to just take it in. Both are welcome — and if you'd like your story heard without saying it yourself, we'll read it for you.

You're never on the spot. Only ever invited.

The flow of the night

How the evening unfolds.

01

Settle In

As you walk in: a warm welcome, a signature drink, soft music, and reflection cards on your table to write on. If you'd like to be part of the sharing, drop your name in the vessel — names are drawn throughout the night for open share (you read your own) or open read (your story is read aloud for you). Perfect for the quieter story-sharers.

02

Opening Reflection

A moment to center, introduce the theme, and open our hearts.

03

Shared Stories

2–3 curated storytellers share personal stories tied to tonight's theme throughout the night.

04

Reflection Pause

Quiet time to journal, reflect, and process what you've heard — carried by a live moment that changes each night: some evenings a musician plays, some a singer performs, some a painter creates live.

05

The Reflection

Guests can anonymously share their reflections. Selected responses are read aloud, reminding us we are not alone.

06

The Story Exchange

Guided one-on-one conversations in rotating, timed table rounds. Real questions. Real connection.

07

The Final Invitation

The floor is open for anyone who feels called to share. No pressure — only invitation.

08

The Reflection

A guided experience to write, release, or create something meaningful from tonight's journey.

09

Closing Moment

We close together, with intention and gratitude.

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Reflection Nights are intimate and limited. Join the waitlist to hear first when the next themed night — and its date — is announced near you.

Outpoured

Tipped over and poured out — into people, into God, into a new version of ourselves. Over and over, until we are made whole.

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Reflections

Releasing October 23, 2026.

© 2026 Outpoured · DEJ B. Wikler. All rights reserved.Honest. Non-performative. Made new.