Living Outpoured
Life has a way oftipping us over.What is your life filledwith when it pours?
A movement. A home. A gathering.
Stop consuming faith.
Start living it.
A home for experiences that don't just inform you — they re-form you. Reflection Nights, cohorts, the Circle, retreats, the podcast — every doorway opens onto the same invitation: to be tipped over, poured out, and transformed. Not a Bible study. Not a coaching group. Faith in motion. More life. Shared daily.
This is community, real accountability, and actual transformation — faith you practice, not just faith you hear about.
Two ways to experience Outpoured
Come to a table we've set — or let us help you set your own.
Gather with us
Step into experiences created by Outpoured.
Rooms we've already shaped for you — to be tipped over, poured out, and re-formed alongside others walking the same road.
Create with us
Have a vision of your own?
We partner with faith-led leaders and communities to bring meaningful messages and missions to life — through thoughtfully designed retreats, gatherings, workshops, and experiences.
Let's talkYou keep looking for God in the extraordinary.
The retreat. The moment. The spiritual breakthrough.
Meanwhile, He's been quietly writing your story in the ordinary all along.
The Tuesday morning. The marriage you're building. The friendship that keeps you accountable.
The question isn't whether you'll encounter Him.
It's whether you'll recognize Him when you do.
Where it begins
Every life is telling a story.
God has always met ordinary people in ordinary life —
around tables, along dusty roads, through friendships, in seasons of joy, and in seasons of loss.
We believe He is still doing the same today.
Meet the founder
Hi, I'm Dej.
I'm a wife, mother, author, and storyteller. Outpoured was born from a simple realization: God wasn't waiting for me somewhere outside my ordinary life. He was already meeting me in it.
I build brands rooted in faith and honest storytelling. As an author and the founder of Outpoured, I lead women and couples through deep work on surrender, identity, and spiritual wholeness.
I lead because I've lived it — as a wife, mother, and believer who's been tipped over by my own choices and patterns, and who knows what it takes to be refilled. I refuse performative spirituality. Instead, I build spaces where real women and couples can get honest about their mess and meet God right there.
The Memoir · Coming Fall 2026
Reflections
Stories, poems & lessons on being poured out
Before there was Outpoured, there were these stories — the ordinary moments where everything quietly changed.
Learn About the BookOur foundation
Everything points back to Jesus.
Outpoured is rooted in the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. Wherever you are — certain, curious, or somewhere in between — you are genuinely welcome here.
"Moab has been at ease from his youth… settled on his dregs; he has not been emptied from vessel to vessel… Therefore I will send him tippers who will tip him over."
Jeremiah 48:11–12
This is the metaphor behind our name: a vessel left untouched grows stale. It's the tipping over — the pouring out from vessel to vessel — that keeps us fresh. Outpoured is that pouring, on purpose, together.
Every story, every table, every cohort ultimately points back to Him.
What life inside looks like
Start at the front door.
Live Storytelling · Open to women & men
Reflection Nights
Come tell a story. Come just to listen.
Low lighting. Live music. Real stories. You walk in feeling unseen. You leave feeling a little more human.
An evening to gather, hear stories, share stories, reflect, and connect — part supper club, part open mic, part exhale.
This is where the journey begins.
Applications required
A Six-Month Formation Journey for Women
For women ready to encounter God in ordinary moments. Whether you're navigating motherhood, marriage, career, or unexpected seasons — if you're willing to show up honestly and practice faith, you belong here.
What this looks like
Week three.
You're sitting across from a woman you've never met. She shares a story that somehow feels like yours. Suddenly, you realize you've spent years believing something that was never true.
Month four.
These women know your coffee order. They know what silence means between you. They know when to press in and when to sit with you in it. You're known. Completely.
Six months later.
You show up to motherhood, marriage, your career differently. More present. Less performed. You recognize God's hand in moments that used to feel ordinary. You're gentler with yourself. You're more available to others.
Investment
$1,997 one-time
or
$375/month for 6 months
Scholarship / flexibility options available upon request. Inquire about scholarships →
Is this right for you?
- You want deep, honest accountability
- You're ready to practice faith daily, not just study it
- You crave real community with other women
This might not be for you if
- You're looking for a passive video course
- You want a traditional lecture-style Bible study
Six months from now
- ✦You'll have friendships deep enough for real truth.
- ✦You'll recognize God in moments that used to feel ordinary.
- ✦You'll show up to motherhood, marriage, career differently — more present, less performed.
- ✦You'll know what it feels like to belong exactly as you are.
Applications required
A Six-Month Journey for Couples
For couples building a Christ-centered life together. Not a fix — a deepening. If you're ready to practice intentional faith, honest conversation, and meaningful connection — this is for you.
What this looks like
Imagine six months of meals where you're not trying to solve anything. Just building something.
Shared adventures. Honest conversations. Other couples who understand the tension between staying faithful and staying real. Vision nights where you dream about what you're building together. Friendships that anchor you both.
By month three.
You laugh about things that used to feel heavy. You can be honest in ways you weren't before. You're building something with intention instead of just managing what you have.
By month six.
You won't have fixed your marriage. You'll have remembered why you chose it. You'll move through the world differently — more aligned, more together, more intentional about building the legacy you want for your family.
Investment
$2,697 one-time
or
$499/month for 6 months
Scholarship / flexibility options available upon request. Inquire about scholarships →
Is this right for you?
- You both want to grow with intention, together
- You're ready for honest conversation and daily practice
- You want couple friendships that actually understand
This might not be for you if
- You're hoping for a quick fix or marriage counseling
- You want a passive, watch-at-home course
Six months from now
- ✦You'll have couple friendships that actually understand.
- ✦You'll laugh about things that used to feel heavy.
- ✦You'll approach your marriage as a story you're building, not a problem to solve.
- ✦You'll move through the world differently — more aligned, more together.
In their words
What being poured out has looked like.
"I came in guarded and performing. Six months later I have friendships where I can finally tell the truth — and a faith I actually practice on Tuesday mornings, not just Sundays."
Rachel M.
VESSELS · Spring 2026
"We didn't fix our marriage in Vows & Vessels. We remembered why we chose it. The daily rhythms gave us language we didn't have before."
Marcus & Tia J.
Vows & Vessels · Spring 2026
"The first Reflection Night wrecked me in the best way. I walked in a stranger and left feeling human again. It's why I applied for the cohort."
Priya S.
Reflection Night guest
Why the cohorts change people
Small by design. Daily by rhythm. Embodied by practice.
Strictly Limited Cohorts
Capped at 12 women — or 6 couples for Vows & Vessels — so there's deep connection, individual attention, and zero places to hide.
Daily Application
Daily micro-challenges, video check-ins, and accountability loops keep your spiritual growth active all week — not one hour on Sunday.
Embodied Growth
Move beyond sitting in a circle listening to lectures — experience challenges that test and refine your character in real time.
Come as you are. Stay as long as you like.
For VESSELS & VV Alumni
The Circle
Your people don't leave after six months. Monthly gatherings. Shared meals. Friendships that keep you accountable.
Explore The Circle
Immersive experiences
Retreats
You step away from your routine long enough to notice what's been there all along. Sometimes we have to leave ordinary life to see God moving through it.
Get Retreat Updates
The Podcast · Coming soon
Outpoured Living Podcast
Real conversations about faith, relationships, purpose, and the stories still being written in ordinary lives.
Not ready for a cohort? Start here.
Free: 5 days of Reflection Prompts.
A short daily prompt to help you notice God in your ordinary moments — delivered to your inbox. A gentle way to taste the Outpoured rhythm before you ever apply.
Come join · Winter 2027
Your story isn't finished.
Applications for the Winter 2027 cohorts are open. Come sit at the table.